This easy and practical form of self-help comes with a bonus: It actually works! — Problems are an integral part of life. Solving them is a necessary part of living. Thankfully, most problems are minor, originating from broken garbage disposals, faulty dishwashers, dead car batteries, and a host of other daily surprises that require our attention. But what about the bigger issues — the real, unexpected, punch-in-the-gut setbacks that disrupt our normal…